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Prepared by Jrsygir1(6/2000) for 
Mahogany Pleasures of Darkness Munch
Used by permission

If you haven't seen this list before, you can use this as way of
figuring out your partner's limits, or your own limits. This may also
allow you to explore areas that were never discussed before. This list
is very comprehensive...


Prepared by Jrsygir1(6/2000), this list was inspired by many existing
lists on the was prepared and is intended for educational purposes 
only and should not be used for commercial
gain.....please feel free to reproduce and distribute this document
free of charge anywhere on the internet or in print.
This is a Playlist that may help couples figure out what their wants
and needs are. Personally I don't like playlists but sometimes they are
good communication tools.

When someone fills it out they should indicate if they are filling it
out for their ultimate Dominant/Top partner or for someone in
particular, taking into consideration the nature of the relationship.
In other words if I were filling it out for my longtime Dominant
partner it would look different than if I were filling it out for a new
casual play partner. Some of the answers would be different based on
the nature of the relationship and the level of trust involved.

Please note; nothing in my opinion takes the place of chemistry and
face to face communication.

How to fill out the forms

A. Done it YES or NO

B. Indicate how you felt about it when you did it using the following

NO means you will NOT do that activity under any circumstances. Its a
hard limit and will never happen with anyone. PERIOD! THE END! DONT
0   means you HATE that activity, but you are willing to do it at least
a little to please the Dominant/Top, but you would really rather not.
It can also mean you are not able to do that activity with a casual
play partner but in the right situation, like a committed relationship,
you would be capable of doing it. And this is why communication will
never take the place of a Playlist.

1   means you don't care much about it....under the right circumstances
it might be fun...what the hell...ok you will try it.
2   means you're curious about it, not sure how you'll
theory you think you will like it.....but you  reserve the right to
hate it.
3   means it's pleasurable or fun....and you hope the Dominant/Top can
make it more fun.
4   means you love it, you get hot thinking about it....and you really
really want to do it.
5   means the activity is a wild turn-on, you want to do it more more
more...all the time...AGAIN!!!

C.  Indicate for each item how you feel RIGHT NOW about doing that
activity with the person who asked you to fill this playlist out,
assuming there will be chemistry when you actually meet.

NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances. Its a hard

_____ _____ _____ Oral sex
_____ _____ _____ Anal sex and/or rimming
_____ _____ _____ Light bondage using scarves, light rope, etc.
_____ _____ _____ Heavy bondage using handcuffs, shackles or similar devices
_____ _____ _____ Blindfolds
_____ _____ _____ Toys such as vibrators, dildos, or eggs
_____ _____ _____ Toys such as anal beads or Ben Wa balls
_____ _____ _____ Spanking
_____ _____ _____ Whipping
_____ _____ _____ Cock and ball torture, clamps, etc.
_____ _____ _____ Nipple torture, clamps etc.
_____ _____ _____ Collar/leash
_____ _____ _____ Role playing
_____ _____ _____ Cross dressing
_____ _____ _____ Taking photographs for private use
_____ _____ _____ Filming for private use
_____ _____ _____ Voyeurism
_____ _____ _____ Fisting
_____ _____ _____ Pussy and/or cock worship
_____ _____ _____ Knife play
_____ _____ _____ Fire play
_____ _____ _____ Needle play
_____ _____ _____ Branding
_____ _____ _____ Sensory Deprivation
_____ _____ _____ Water sports/urine
_____ _____ _____ Scat
_____ _____ _____ Food play
_____ _____ _____ Hot candle wax
_____ _____ _____ Depilation/shaving
_____ _____ _____ High heels/boots
_____ _____ _____ The rack/medieval devices
_____ _____ _____ Discipline
_____ _____ _____ Exhibitionism/sex in public
_____ _____ _____ Humiliation
_____ _____ _____ Infantilism/diapers
_____ _____ _____ Confinement
_____ _____ _____ Defilement, seeing a partner dirty or wet
_____ _____ _____ Leather, fur or other texture stimulation
_____ _____ _____ Enemas
_____ _____ _____ Sex during menstruation
_____ _____ _____ Talking dirty
_____ _____ _____ Biting
_____ _____ _____ Feet worship
_____ _____ _____ Pinching
_____ _____ _____ Massage
_____ _____ _____ Tickling
_____ _____ _____ OTHER:
_____ _____ _____ OTHER:
_____ _____ _____ OTHER:



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