|How To Make Toys|
History and Controversy.
This started out as a humorous idea, a fun, fantasy type thing. I still mean it that way. There are many differing points of view about involving others *non-consensually in our play. I have argued in the past that during shopping scenes, from a customer service point of view, store clerks are consenting by the fact of their employment. Others have pointed out that those who are living an "outed" D/s lifestyle, have the right to dress and act as the please, they should not have to hide who and what they are. Another point of view is that we should not offend others by our actions in public.
Lady Green, in a short post, recently helped me clarify my own feelings. She mentioned how "pissed" she would be if she was dining with her kids and a D/s couple started acting out their fantasies in the restaurant. I am adopting her point of view. It is like the windows of most adult book/toy stores, painted over or covered. People walking by may know what is inside, but they are not being non-consensually exposed to all the pictures and toys. I cannot dictate what you should do. My suggestion is: play nice, "don't frighten the horses", and be considerate of the store clerks and all the rest of the "public" be they vanilla or Us.
This is just a list of the many things I have seen, collected, and requested from the net and other sources. Some suggestions are clearly for male subs. Others for female subs. Some will work for both. Of course anyone attempting to "do these things at home", should remember, safe, sane, consensual [that is sort of a toughie here huh], impact on careers, relationships, etc.etc. There are probably places we would be put in jail if we tried these things. There is also some concern about involving others in some of the scenes. Several suggested making arrangements ahead of time with the clerk or store.
My thanks to Eden, Lady Green, julie.winters, brandrog, Robert at TPE, Eightmeg, johnm23357, jk1223, madams, Ivana, Ms. C., Laurel, Babalon, AnneMs, Katharine, Stewart, John, and many others. And, please, remember, I am just the messenger ;-}.
I. Clothing the sub can be made to wear:
1. Black or dark colored bra under thin white shirt.
III. Shopping scenes. [The assumption here is that it should be obvious the purchases are for the sub.]
1. Shopping for and trying on lingerie or dresses.
|32. She spanks you.
33. She slaps you.
34. You have to eat a doggie snack at lunch.
35. You have to kiss the ground whenever you leave a car.
36. You kiss the seat of her chair whenever she stands.
37. Ordering warm milk, or some other almost impossible item, claiming dietary need.
38. You have to eat a bite of something that has had an ash flicked on it.
39. The Mistress takes her female sub into the restroom and performs an on the spot vaginal/rectal examine, attaches a variety of 'toys' or clamps.
40. You are taken on a nature walk, tied to a tree, for a quickie spanking.
41. One hand is cuffed to the chair or table when you are eating.
42. At a cocktail lounge, you have to sit at the bar next to the serving station and you are cuffed to the rail.
43. You are instructed to eat a meal alone, reading a copy of Domination Directory International, other Dominatrix publication, or a transvestite magazine.
44. Smoking long, obviously feminine cigarettes.
45. In a parking lot or similar location, just before you will be safely hidden from spectators, she has you pause and wet yourself. You have to walk the last few yards with wet clothes.
46. On your 'x' anniversary, you renew your wedding vows, this time _you_ are dressed as the bride.
47. When you travel alone, you are required to leave lingerie or stockings drying in the bathroom.
48. You are instructed to buy a Halloween maid's costume. Whenever you travel you must leave it hanging in the hotel room along with your regular clothing. Leaving a pair of high heels out would work too.
49. Tape rough felt or very very fine sandpaper inside a shirt over the nipples. Effect should be stimulation, not damage.
50. Reciting all your rules in front of others, at her whim.
51. Temporary "slave" tattoos or other markings, hidden or not.
52. Always walking a foot or two behind her. speeding up to open doors.
53. She pays for everything, with possible comments like "Oh I never allow him to carry money!"
54. If no seats are available, puts you on all fours and sits on your back.
55. Doing some of the "hidden" little things like plugs, nipple clamps, cock rings, in the church of her/your choice.
56. Keeping your legs shaved.
57. Keeping the genitals shaved.
58. Having ribbons/bows braided into the genital hair.
59. Carrying a doll around, brushing its hair, playing with it.
60. When dining out, sub is not allowed to order, is fed little bites from her plate.
61. While she is sitting on a chair, you sit on pool deck beside her, even though there are chairs available next to you.
62. Wear a cock ring with a very long, strong, almost invisible thread attached. She can pull on this anytime. Use it like a leash.