Techniques And Scene Ideas

How we do what it is that we do

(this section is for the sexual and emotional forms of BDSM. For the more physical things, look at the Physical SM Section.)

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Index
*Getting Started*	Age Play	*Anal Play and Enema Play*	*Chastity*	*Genitorture*
*Humiliation*		*Masturbation*	*Miscellaneous*	*Pet Play*
*Psychological Aspects*	*Recommended Reading*	*Setting the Scene*	*Slave Training*	*Sex*
*Watersports*

AGE PLAY
*D/s Kiosk Links*	slashDIAPER	*Ed's ABDL Site List*	*Diaper Pail Friends*	International Big Baby
Little Girl Lost's Webpage	*Wet Set Magazine*	*Little AB's Babyland*	*Mistress Sybil Holiday*	*Understanding Infantilism*
*Gettingit.com*

ANAL PLAY AND ENEMA PLAY
Lingam Massage	**Anal Fisting Not really complete information, but a good place to start**	Enema Lovers Guide to the WWW	Anal Sex Positions and Tips	Handballing Guide
Tristan Taormino's Anal Advisor		*Advanced Anal Sex Techniques*	6 Part Article on Anal Sex	Handballing FAQ
Anal Odyssey	Douche and Enema How to	How to Insert a Butt Plug	*Enema Recipes*	*Colon Cleansing*
Fisting 101	Douche and Enema How to	How to Insert a Butt Plug	Enema Tips	*Colon Cleansing*
*InfoCenter Guide to Anal Sex*	*Erotic Enemas (requires Adult Verification)*	*Beth Tyler (EVERYTHING you want to know)*	Your First Enema	Liquid Geometry
*Goddess Angel's Enema Guide*	Alt Sex Enema FAQ	*Beth Tyler (EVERYTHING you want to know)*	Dee's Anal Sex Info	Alcohol Enemas
*How to Give and Receive Anal Pleasure*	Anal Sex Tips (Anal Passions)	*Health Information (enema recipes)*	*Enemas.Nu (enema recipes)*

CHASTITY
Chastity Belts by Altairboy	*The Chastity Belt Page*	*Sexuality Org on Chastity Belts*	*LockMeUp.Com*
			*Male Chastity Tube*

GETTING STARTED
What is Dominance and What's in it for Me?	*Developing a Command Presence*

GENITORTURE
Cock and Ball Torture (Fetish Information Exchange)	Sound Advice The uses and abuses of sounds	Basic Cock and Ball Torture	Vaginal Fisting	Cock and Ball Ratchet and Torture
			Female Genitorture
Cock and Ball Torture with Alexis Tremaine	Genitorture by Rose
	Intimate Edge Play

HUMILIATION
*Humiliation by Kim*	*New Start For the New Year*	*Humiliation Ideas and Suggestions*	*More Humiliation Ideas and Suggestions*	*Even More Humiliation and Masturbation Ideas and Suggestions*
*Begging*	*Erotic Torture Game*	*Humiliation vs. Degradation by Dark Whisper*
			*MsIn10sity's Essay on Erotic Humiliation*
*Humiliation by Bound Lady*
*Lists of Humiliations, Teases, Punishments, Etc.*	*BadBob's Version of the Erotic Torture Game*	*Albany Power Exchange on Erotic Humiliation Play*		*BDSM Party Games*
				*Emotional Degradation*

MASTURBATION
*Embarrassing and/or Painful Ways to Make Your Slave Masturbate*	BonViv's Additions to the Masturbation Suggestions	*All About Masturbation*	*Fantasy Masturbation .com*	*Male Masturbation Techniques*
Masturbation Techniques	*Female Masturbation and Ejaculation*

*MISCELLANEOUS*
*Male Submission by Elfin*	*Ways to Entertain Yourself and Your Sub in a Hotel Room Without Your Toys*	*Figging Learn a Victorian Torture*	*What is in a Top's Toy Bag?*	*The Hanky Code This is used more often in the gay and lesbian community than in the heterosexual communities,*
*Traveling With Toys*
*Shaving*	*Shaving FAQ*	*Female Ejaculation*	*Female Ejaculation: Jennyspray*
*Guide to Genital Shaving*

PET PLAY
Dog Training	Pony Slaves	*The Human Equine*	The Doghouse	*Rogue Pony Stables*
StrayPup's Kennel

PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECTS
First Trip Into Subspace	Top Drop and Sub Drop	*Aftercare*	*Consensual Non-Consent*	*Emotional Safety*
		*Endorphins*
Subspace Links	The Healthy Submissive Society and Submissive Women	Steve's Primer of Practical Persuasion and Influence	Flashbacks in Scenes	Tools of Consent
Sex and Pain			The Appeal of Darkness	The Pleasure of the Pain

SETTING THE SCENE
*Suggested Scene Music*	*Setting the Scene by Lord Colm*	*A Scene with Master Roland*

SEX
*San Francisco Sex Information*	Getting Started with G Spot Play	*Koi's Website*	A Man's Primer on Sexual Technique	Ejaculation Awareness and Control Exercise Program
Giving and Receiving Erotic Massage	Secrets of the G Spot	*Female Ejaculation*	The Clitoris	*Vulva*

SLAVE TRAINING
*Geisha Training*	Slave Training Sites	*The Butler's Guild*	How to do Housework (for subs)	Real Women Don't Do Housework
*BEST Slave Training Adlerian Counseling*	Slave Positions and Hand Signals	Leather Care and How to Spit Shine Boots	Slave Contract Links	Non Corporal Punishments
Personal Service FAQs by Piph	*Internal Enslavement*	*What is Slave Development Like*	*Slave Training Library*	*Born Slaves Slave Development*
Personal Service FAQs by Piph		*What is Slave Development Like*	*Slave Training Library*	*Born Slaves Slave Development*

Watersports
*Watersports Manual*	Liquid Geometry (douching)	*BDSM Backroom Golden Showers*	*Fetish Club Watersports FAQ*

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