Anonymous: We find that rituals change over time; adapt to what we need. Sometimes they are replaced by other ones. But having daily rituals is very important to us, and structures our lives in a way that comforts me and reminds us both that he is Master and I am a slave--not always an easy thing when Master and slave are also lovers.

"The only permission you may specifically ask for is to get into my bed. You will do this while kneeling at my feet. The next thing you shall do after we are in bed together is ask me how you may serve me."

This ritual has been augmented by something we found desirable: a nightly "confession." He asks me 3 questions each night after I ask him how I may serve him: "Have you deliberately disobeyed me today?", "Have you done anything that you think might have bordered on disobedience but weren't sure?" [Note: With my life being structured and controlled as tightly as it is, there are LOTS of times when something I may do falls into a gray area and requires resolution from him one way or the other, and "Have you had any victories today?" The latter question focuses us both on the little things I encountered and overcame that day, usually mental victories.

"I will instruct you to begin morning service by telling you that you are here to serve me. When I do so you will get me hard using your hands or mouth or both, but you will end by taking my whole erect penis into your mouth, your lips around the base, before asking how you may serve me. If I tell you I wish to use your ass or pussy that morning, you will position yourself as I have previously instructed."

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